For years, the chemistry between Cheryl Fernandez-Versini tween Cheryl Fernandez-Versini and Simon Cowell was one of the most talked-about dynamics on The X Factor. Their fiery back-and-forths, sharp quips, and undeniable tension lit up the judging panel as much as the talent did. But in a candid 2015 interview, Cheryl revealed that the tension wasn’t always what it seemed—and that she had made a conscious decision to tone it down.
“I’m trying not to retaliate,” she admitted at the time, referring to Cowell’s well-known talent for provoking her on live television. “He knows which buttons to press and he presses them just to wind me up and get a response.”
Fans had grown used to their playful (and sometimes exasperated) exchanges, but Cheryl’s comments revealed a more thoughtful approach behind the scenes. Following the death of Cowell’s mother that year, Cheryl said she sensed a shift in their dynamic—one that led to more warmth and mutual understanding.
“There’s more banter than bickering now,” she said, showing a new side to their often combative relationship. Despite their clashes, Cheryl emphasized that her affection for Cowell ran deep: “I love him dearly. I do.”
The insight added a fresh layer of depth to their televised relationship, suggesting that while the drama made for good TV, the bond between the two judges was far more genuine than viewers may have realized. Cheryl’s willingness to step back from the verbal sparring showed not only personal growth, but also a desire for a more balanced energy on the panel.
Their dynamic may have evolved, but one thing remained true: Cheryl and Simon’s rapport was, and always will be, a crucial part of The X Factor’s magic.
Terkuma Anagh